7 Steps to Fearless Speaking

I recommend this book as one of your first books to read on public speaking along with Simply Speaking by Peggy Noonan. 7 Steps is more complete and more like a text book to read. Wilder is a writer that uplifts you and encourages you rather than talking down to you like some other speach books by well known authors. Interestingly, the book begins and ends with your voice as an instrument of vocal production. Most other speech book writers don't address how to make your voice sound better. They take the: "Live with it approach." Great singers practice and practice on the sound itself. Why not speakers. May be they don't know any better or their publisher says: "too complicated." This author knows but does not overwhelm you. One speaking book was so hard to follow on vocal production I had to set it aside for a while. Wilder made the exercises so easy to follow that I was not overwhelmed. Most of the book is about developing a content filled speech and then how to deliver it. This book will build your confidence in speaking.

I am a professional women living in New York City, where people think, talk and act fast. After reading Ms. Wilder's book, I can hold my own with the best of them.

Lilyan's 7 Steps to Fearless speaking was a godsend. As a computer consultant, companies pay hundreds of thousands of dollars for my services, yet when required to present findings or project status to executive boards I often feel mechanical, not delivering the pizzazz they deserve for their dollar. Lilyan not only provided insights to enhancing my style, she also provided strategies for the components of a successful presentation, combined with real life stories to connect with. She has found an eloquent blend of practical approach and accentuating your voice potential, the "Mirror of your soul".

I have thoroughly enjoyed the portions of this book that I have read. It is succint. It is useful. It is a help for people who are comfortable in front of groups as well as for people who want to improve the way they connect with their listeners.

We are living in a world where we are all expected to communicate as effectively and (seemingly) effortlessly as media stars. There is no better way to learn how to do this than to follow the instructions of the woman who has taught so many consumate communicators to do their jobs. Some people can afford to pay thousands of dollars to speach coaches to improve their public speaking. If you can't, this book is the best substitute. It's clear, action-oriented and contains principles to incorporate into virtually any oral presentation - from second grade teachers to corporate officers. A Must Have for anyone who cares about their public speaking.