1001 Ways to Say I Love You: An Inspirational Collection of Loving Ideas for the Man/Woman in Your Life.

This is actually two books, one for women, and flip it over and around, and the other side is for men. I cheated and looked at both sides, even though my husband pouted because I checked out all of the good ideas, but it's pretty good. I liked that it had lots of things that were pretty useful, but I was a little bummed that both sides have a lot of the same ideas, or just the other side of the same idea ('learn to like his old flannel shirt', and 'if she doesn't like your flannel, meybe get rid of it' kind of things). Lots of concessions, but pretty good for the ideas that they give, and maybe you'll get a couple of your own by reading what they have.